Tobin is extremely cautious....which is a good thing....sometimes! With my many years of driving experience I sometimes find myself impatient and can't decide if I should tell Tobin to hurry up or rather if I should tell myself to slow down. Most of the time I end up saying nothing. I like that Tobin takes a while to get the car up to 40 miles per hour, I like that he is good about putting on his blinker, I like that he has found his mojo when it comes to braking, and I like that he worries about his speed. I had forgotten how much concentration it takes to drive. Even getting the car ready for driving-adjusting mirrors, seats, steering wheel, etc. I see Tobin constantly assessing his speed against the speed limit; he's becoming aware of exactly what the mirrors show.
I'm not gonna lie and say I haven't yelled at Tobin, but for the most part I have been pretty proud of myself for keeping it together and NOT yelling as much as I thought I was going to. I think I pre-empt it by saying things like, "There's a red light ahead" or "Don't forget that in the rain you need to brake more slowly than in normal weather" etc.
Andy took Tobin on the highway for the first time this past weekend. I wasn't quite ready for that so I was glad Andy didn't mind doing it. Tobin felt he was ready though and I guess that's what counts. He took him up north where the highways tend not to be as busy so Tobin was able to acclimate to the fast speeds of the highway without all that many cars around. I am proud of Tobin for being so careful and cautious. I know that I can leave him in the car without me and even if he goes a fraction faster, it will still be ok!
Monday, May 7, 2012
Friday, September 23, 2011
Noah's birthday
| Noah's best bud comes to help celebrate! |
| So do the Shahs1 |
| Noah and Shayne |
| Celebrating! |
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| Noah gets his wish! Facebook! |
Your first game was on your birthday, just like last year! Almost all of your games are Saturday at 6:15! You were really excited to have your first game on your birthday, bu tI was a little nervous about how the game would go and if that would affect your birthday cheer. Because I had made signs for Brenna's race that morning, I thought I should make you one for your birthday as well! I hope you liked it and caught the connection between "smashing" on the poster and smashing out on the football field.
We went to dinner afterwards, your choice, at Bugabook Creek. Why you wanted to kiss the moose, I don't know, but you had a great time. Aidan was able to come which was so great. He is still recovering and you have been a good friend to him. After we got home from that you were able to open your birthday presents (although you had gotten your big gift earlier in the day-a new phone). But Dad and I thought you might be happy with what was in the last box for you! The gift of Facebook! You were really excited. Because we couldn't really wrap Facebook, I cut a picture of your face with a + sign and then drew a book. I am not the greatest artist, but I knew I would get the job done! It turned out to be really funny though because as you "got" the pictogram, Brenna said, "I don't get it. Noah Reed."
You said, "No Brenna, it's Facebook."
Brenna said, "No, it's Noah Reed." We laughed as we realized she was interpreting the book as "Reed." It was quite funny!!
Happy Birthday to my Noah-I love you more than I can ever show you!
Brenna's 5K race
Brenna's official time is 27:53 for a pace of 8:59! Brenna you are amazing!! I can't believe how well you did for your first race. I suspect there will be more in your future. I was so excited for you to run this race with your friends. I wanted to make a poster for you, but I also wanted it to be a surprise. I wanted you to see it during the race-you, Kate, and Lindsey. Lyla decided to do the Kid's Fun Run. You and the others started together, but somehow ended up getting seperated. I think you were focused on your time and running the best race you could. I also made a sign for Mrs. Faraone which you all laughed at once it was explained to you! I don't think I surprised you with the sign, but I was still happy I had one!
It was so much fun! I was able to see you at the mile mark and then again at the finish line. You looked so strong and confident, not even breathing hard!
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| Lindsey, Kate, Brenna |
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| Wonder what she's thinking! |
| Lindsey and Kate with Mack who volunteered! |
| The runners! |
| Starting off on light feet! |
| Seeing my sign for the first time! |
| Brenna finishing the race strong! |
| Here come Kate and Lindsey |
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| The sign I made for them! |
Thursday, September 22, 2011
School Days
Tobin-Work hard this year! Know that each year builds on the last in high school. Continue to build your friendships- they are the bread and butter of your high school years!
Noah-- Middle school will continue to be easy for you! You need to learn the ethic of working hard and of sometimes having to do it because that is the system! I love you and will be here to teach you patience and the art of tolerance for things you deem silly.
Brenna-Finally, Kate is in your class! And Lindsey, and Faith! Take advantage of having such good friends in your class. But remember, if you talk to much, your teacher will move you away from each other! And Mrs. Dembrow is awesome!! I can only hope she teaches and reaches you like she did with Tobin!!
Noah-- Middle school will continue to be easy for you! You need to learn the ethic of working hard and of sometimes having to do it because that is the system! I love you and will be here to teach you patience and the art of tolerance for things you deem silly.
| Brenna and Faith with Mrs. Dembrow |
| Finally, after 5 years apart, Mr. Chep finally got smart and put these two together! |
Brenna-Finally, Kate is in your class! And Lindsey, and Faith! Take advantage of having such good friends in your class. But remember, if you talk to much, your teacher will move you away from each other! And Mrs. Dembrow is awesome!! I can only hope she teaches and reaches you like she did with Tobin!!
Sunday, March 13, 2011
Wednesday, March 2, 2011
Go Warriors!
Brenna's soccer team played indoor soccer this season. They did a great job with Dawn as their coach (she is to the left of Brenna). For the championship game played last weekend, they played a great team! The first time we played them, the first game of the season; we lost 7-0. Not an auspicious start for us. Throughout the season as we followed this team, they were never scored on once! They would win their games, 13-0, 10-0, and on and on. When we saw our Warriors team doing well, we all knew if they made it to the playoffs that somewhere we would need to play this team again. And we bit our nails. The other things to note about this team are that this team is comprised of 4th grade girls while our girls are 3rd grade and as we understand it, they practice during the week while we do not!
Indeed we did face off against them in the final round of the playoffs, the championships!! It was a brillant game. The girls played with their hearts, mind,....and their feet. And we lost! However, the score was only 2-0! The two goals they scored within one minute of each other. The first goal was a little questionable because from where I stood, our goalie had her hands on the ball and the other team continued kicking anyway. The second goal, no one could have gotten no matter their effort! It was a beautiful arc right into the goal. They did a good job winning, but I must say our girls did a great job defending.
And when you are given donuts with soccer emblems on them afterwards, who cares?!!
Thursday, February 17, 2011
Mom Loves Billy Eliott and I am grateful
Al Duncker better beware...there's another man in my mom's life. Actually, that's not quite right....it's her grandchildren who had better watch out-a new boy has captured my mother's heart! His name is Billy Elliott and he lives on stage on Broadway. My mom has brought Torin to him, Tobin to him and now she has brought Noah, Grayson and me to him. And we loved it!
We took the train up to New York to see Billy Elliott last Tuesday. I had never been on a train before so this was a first for me and for Noah. How is it right that Noah and I are experiencing something for the first time together! We had a great time on the train. We were able to get the seat where we were able to face each other. Yeah! We played the word game where the first person says a letter, the second adds another letter to it and so on...until the word ends. We always laughed when there was a moment of realization that you could delay ending the song by adding I-N-G! We loved it. I think Noah felt the same way about New York as he came up out of the train station. The assault of your senses of lights, sound, motion and smoke is ubiquitous. Noah fit right in and was comfortable walking ahead of us right away.
What I love about New York was the easy feeling between me and my mom. We can make each other laugh, can talk about anything, and we just share in the day. I love spending time with my mom and New York is one place we've been able to do it twice in the last year. It's a little hard to explain, but in New York, I feel like it's just us, going where we want to go, doing what anyone would love to be doing. When I was young and thought about the mom I wanted I see her on our days in NY. Does that even make sense? Not trying to be cheesy, just trying to say what I love about New York.
We were able to visit the M&Ms store where oh yes...MomMom left the Billy Elliott tickets on the 2nd floor of the store. Thank goodness it was only a senior second and she remembered before we left the store. MomMom bought Noah a red m&m tshirt and each family some m&ms. I loved the plethora of color in the store. We ate lunch and then walked back to the theater. Mom and I wished we would have been able to eat at a "New York" restaurant for lunch but we were in a hurry to get to the theater. And then Billy Elliott.....it was such a great story and the dancing was incredible! Mommom loves the cross dressing scene, I loved the scene after Billy's dad tells Billy he can't do ballet where he dances with the police who have riot shields as a prop, to metaphorically show the obstacle Billy must overcome. It was just great!!
Then we ate a quick dinner at Juniors and returned to take the train home! Mommom listened to her ipod and continued to text people on her phone. It was fun to watch her see if she had any text back. She loves it when she gets one! Text her if you can people.
Honestly, how do you thank your mom for doing something like this? What a great gift!! I am so extremely grateful that my mom loves me enough to share Billy with me and my family. I feel like the luckiest girl in the world. Thanks Mom. Noah says thank you too!
We took the train up to New York to see Billy Elliott last Tuesday. I had never been on a train before so this was a first for me and for Noah. How is it right that Noah and I are experiencing something for the first time together! We had a great time on the train. We were able to get the seat where we were able to face each other. Yeah! We played the word game where the first person says a letter, the second adds another letter to it and so on...until the word ends. We always laughed when there was a moment of realization that you could delay ending the song by adding I-N-G! We loved it. I think Noah felt the same way about New York as he came up out of the train station. The assault of your senses of lights, sound, motion and smoke is ubiquitous. Noah fit right in and was comfortable walking ahead of us right away.
What I love about New York was the easy feeling between me and my mom. We can make each other laugh, can talk about anything, and we just share in the day. I love spending time with my mom and New York is one place we've been able to do it twice in the last year. It's a little hard to explain, but in New York, I feel like it's just us, going where we want to go, doing what anyone would love to be doing. When I was young and thought about the mom I wanted I see her on our days in NY. Does that even make sense? Not trying to be cheesy, just trying to say what I love about New York.
We were able to visit the M&Ms store where oh yes...MomMom left the Billy Elliott tickets on the 2nd floor of the store. Thank goodness it was only a senior second and she remembered before we left the store. MomMom bought Noah a red m&m tshirt and each family some m&ms. I loved the plethora of color in the store. We ate lunch and then walked back to the theater. Mom and I wished we would have been able to eat at a "New York" restaurant for lunch but we were in a hurry to get to the theater. And then Billy Elliott.....it was such a great story and the dancing was incredible! Mommom loves the cross dressing scene, I loved the scene after Billy's dad tells Billy he can't do ballet where he dances with the police who have riot shields as a prop, to metaphorically show the obstacle Billy must overcome. It was just great!!
Then we ate a quick dinner at Juniors and returned to take the train home! Mommom listened to her ipod and continued to text people on her phone. It was fun to watch her see if she had any text back. She loves it when she gets one! Text her if you can people.
Honestly, how do you thank your mom for doing something like this? What a great gift!! I am so extremely grateful that my mom loves me enough to share Billy with me and my family. I feel like the luckiest girl in the world. Thanks Mom. Noah says thank you too!
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