Sunday, December 7, 2008

A Job Well Done

Tobin's superbowl was last night and he won! And boy do I wish I had pictures, but it was snowing---yes, that's right! Snowing!! In December! Tobin wasn't quite excited to realize it was snowing, but I think it looked rather pretty coming down in the stadium lights. There was something poetic about it.

We were playing the Panthers, a team we beat in our regular season and who were the season champs from last year. Tobin played on the line for offense and corner back on defense. And, boy what a night. He had many key tackles that stopped the other team at many pivotal points. It was exciting to hear the announcer announce Tobin's name for his efforts. It was electrifying, really.

We scored the only touchdown of the night with barely a minute left in the game. It was one of those touchdowns where the player runs almost the entire field from a punt return. You could see the player flanked by his team members (Tobin was right next to him) in something like a flying V formation. We were ready to score! It was a great play and offered us a clean win. Tobin was on a high last night after the game. It was a great end to a great season!

Andy got pictures!! Thanks honey!


Warming up despite the falling cold! Tobin is the one facing us, across from #3.

Tobin is #16, right in the middle of the pictures!

A victorious team! Notice the score board in the back. Tobin is in the 3rd row, right between #s 5 and 23. Go Wolverines!!!

Friday, December 5, 2008

Thanksgiving

My brother Todd, his wife Michelle, and my brother Blair
Noah and baby Jake!!
My mom, her husband Al and baby Jake. He sure gets around!!
Brenna and Julianna!! The girls have to stand together against the mountain of boys in our home!
My three, Brenna, Noah and Tobin, who could all hardly stand for a picture to be taken of them. I keep telling them, they'll thank me some day!
Our yummy Thanksgiving table!!!
Andy cooking the turkey!

Want to know what I loved about Thanksgiving: absolutely everything! I loved the food, our deep fried turkey, our salads, vegetables, green bean casserole, and rum buns (yes, they were from O'donnells) But... two things in particular stand out for me about the holiday weekend.

I realized that when you have your large (in numbers) family over, we had a total of 18 people celebrating Thanksgiving, and your kids are as old as mine, you just kind of let go of where your kids are every minute and you don't worry what they are doing!! You know that they are with their cousins, having a great time, playing, running, jumping, blogging, etc....It really didn't matter as long as they were having a fun time with no bloodshed involved!! And I was glad for them; they are of the age where the food magically appears on the table (like Hogwarts banquets) and the grown-up talk is wicked boring. I love this for them. It is one of those days where all seemed right in the universe.

What was soooo amazing about this Thanksgiving is that for the first time, I made homemade green bean casserole and Andy realized he will never go back (so he says) from making a deep fried turkey.

The green bean casserole: We always have green bean casserole. Ever since I can remember, we have had this dish as part of our Thanksgiving.

Flashbacks: I have a clear memory of my mom putting frozen jello salad squares into the freezer awaiting the feast. As far as I was concerned, they could have stayed in the freezer. I remember this broccoli dish one of her friends made which as far as I'm concerned could have stayed underground. I remember eating the marshmallows off of the sweet potatoes and leaving all of the sweet potatoes behind on my plate. I remember cranberry relish that retained the form of the can as it slid out onto the plate. I remember eating the dark meat of the turkey and loving it. And there was always the green bean casserole. Even though it was a vegetable, I ate it with gusto!

Let me just say, that getting all of the dishes ready for one appointed moment in time, still hot, warm, juicy, tasty, and ready to eat has got to be one of the hardest things to coordinate. And I completely understand getting some help from Betty Crocker and Duncan Hines.

And I am embarrassed to admit that I never realized until I was searching on the internet this year for the recipe that I have been eating the peasant version of green bean casserole! Peasant version ingredients: canned green bean, fried onions, cream of mushroom soup, and milk. But I found a homemade recipe for green bean casserole and I knew I had to try it. Fresh green bean casserole ingredients: fresh grean beans, mushrooms, onions, half and half, flour, panko break crumbs, pepper, chicken broth and nutmeg!! Doesn't it just sound better? So, I bought all of the ingredients and began cooking. Cutting up the onions...I'm still crying over it! I think I have a sensitivity to onions. I pushed up my sleeves, and dug in. You would have been so proud of me!!

I was a little stressed as I started cooking it really late in the day, and Andy wasn't quite sure that we needed to have green bean casserole-- I persisted! Andy has never really liked the casserole, but I do think he liked it this year! I am so glad I made it and I think we now have a new take on an old tradition!!

Andy's turkey was amazing! I can't believe how juicy it was and how fast it cooked in the deep fryer. The day was warm enough for him to cook the turkey outside in shorts! He did ask me to pick up a fire extinguisher though. I wasn't too sure about what this implied! Apparently deep fryers and cooking turkeys are the number one reason, houses burn down and people end up in the ER on Thanksgiving. I'm glad Andy was taking precautions! Luckily, he never needed it. Andy does an amazing job every year with the turkey. He has brined it, cooked it sitting on top of an open beer can, and so many other ways that really make the turkey ooze with taste! I love that our tradition is for him to make the turkey. We had a fabulous dinner. Everyone makes such great dishes. From the Bumgardners corn stuffing (pudding) to the Colchagoff's crab pie, we each have our speciality which make for a wonderful family celebration. Happy Thanksgiving.

The second thing occurred the next night as we had friends over! I saw Noah for the first time playing with a toddler. Usually Noah is so involved in what the "big" kids are doing, he can hardly pay attention to the younger ones! On Friday night we had our friends over and I realized he was sitting next to me laughing, playing peek a boo with a blanket, and tickling our friend's little girl, Sally. It was so fun to watch. Noah looked like he was having a great time and she was laughing that laugh that starts low in the belly and comes out with pure joy. It was so fun to see a side of Noah, that honestly, I have never seen before. That is a lot to be thankful for.

Friday, November 28, 2008

10 things I'm thankful for

1. laughter
2. cuddles from family members
3. my husband "gets" me
4. my children like school
5. scrapbooking
6. good friends
7. savings accounts
8. long distance phone calls
9. books
10. a clean house

Happy Thanksgiving!!

Thursday, November 27, 2008

Trouble in Paradise

uuuhhh--ooooo. We have NO water!! (well technically, we do, but we're not supposed to use it)!! For Thanksgiving. Deep in the ground, there are some old pipes that have decided they are done working properly and are spewing water through places it shouldn't be and running down the street and inbetween cracks. Oh and the water has created a large sinkhole near our front door. Drats!! How are we supposed to cook Thanksgiving dinner with no water?? And we have 20 people coming to our home for dinner! This should be an adventure.

Sunday, November 23, 2008

These is My Words

Dearest Diary,

I am about to bare my soul, so if you don't like the familiarity, please disregard this entry~(ignore it, print it out and burn it, stomp on it, but just don't laugh at it)! You see, I had a great insight today when I was taking care of my brother's two smallest children. Jake is 9 months and Kyle is 4. It might surprise you to know that recently the idea of a fourth child has been a topic of conversation between Andy and me, more than it has been in the last seven years. Andy has always said he wants a fourth; I have been the halting force. Noah even said the other day that he would like us to have a fourth child so he can take care of it. (An aside: right Noah, in between school, soccer practice, basketball practice, play dates, boy scouts).

Move forward to today. I was excited to get my hands on baby Jake. He is a completely happy baby, who has nothing but love to share. Kyle is a little more rambunctious, but no less cute. And the two together....pure joy on my radar screen. Today Brenna had a playdate that lasted as long as a school day; Noah had a basketball game, a birthday party and a playdate afterwards; and Tobin had a playoff football game in the freezing cold. Seriously, it was cold--33 degrees. Andy took Tobin because he always takes Tobin (which is fine with me because they want him there over an hour early--I know, ridiculous). I was left to bundle, and stuff Jake into his hat, full-body fleece, winter coat, gloves, and then stuff him into his car seat. All the while, I had to help Kyle do the same thing. Then I was left to re-stuff the diaper bag full of diapers, change of clothes, bottle, toys, cheerios, wipes, and vaseline! (I emptied it trying to find a non-existent pacifier (Jake doesn't take one)). And then I had to stuff the car full of diaper bag, stroller, blankets, snacks, my own coat and gloves, purse, a packback with clothes that I had to gather for Tobin so he would be able to go out after the game, and the kids (while the last seems obvious, I haven't quite done this in a while). There was a rhythm that began to emerge as I engaged in the stuffing; I felt like I was getting ready for the stuffing of Thanksgiving.
And then I got to the game venue and had to figure out how to unpack this all and transport it and the children to the bleachers. Might I remind you, it was freezing cold!! The only hiccup was that Kyle forgot his gloves and his little hands were exposed to the cold. He was a real trooper, though!

And then it happened. My insight. The. fact. that. if. I. had. another. child. this. would. be. my. existence. and. it. would. take. me. further. away. from. the. children. I. already. have. especially. Tobin. As it stands, Noah still finds my hair way too fasicnating to ignore it or me (by association) and constantly is playing with it and asking me to cuddle with him so he can get ahold of it. Brenna as the youngest, who loves being the youngest, loves to cuddle still and as a girl, we shop, do our nails, do her hair, all the things the boys have no interest in. But Tobin....Tobin is my heart that resides the farthest outside my body. He no longer cuddles, he no longer whispers sweet nothing in my ear, and as of late, the I love yous no longer come as easy. I can feel he feels close to Andy because of the whole sports connection. As it is, I am left on the sidelines to be an observer of what they are participants. Did I really want to bench myself, even further away (like having to be home so a baby could nap)??? For me, the answer was a resounding NO!

Thanks Michelle and Todd, you gave me far more than I gave you today.

Thursday, November 20, 2008

Brenna's birthday

Natalie, MaKenzie, Faith, Madeline, Caroline, Shira, Brooke, Kate, Julianna, Madison, Jaiden, Brandon, Lindsey, and Bobby thanks for making Brenna's birthday one of the most special birthdays to date!! I felt like I was traveling through elementary musical as I watched Naomi (the dance instructor) orchestrate the mayhem of 7 year olds making Brenna's party a true celebration full of laughter, giggling and living. You girls sure know how to have a good time. The best moment was when everyone stopped for a moment and was still, watching the rainbow appear after the rain poured! And then the whirligigs and whimsies began again!

Brenna, how is it even possible you are 7 years old?! I love that you dance to everything--that there isn't anything that isn't music in your life! May it always be so. That was my wish when you blew out your candles.